Whitney loves Dancing. Her teacher, Miss Shanda was great. Since January, each Thursday at 4:05 Whitney loved to rush into dance class and had a great time. She was such a good girl, so obedient, followed the rules and was a good listener. I loved that she really was happy going and LOVES to dance.
But then... the recital happened.
During the dress re-hersal, Whitney had a sad time. My sister, Annette, was in town for a few days and Whitney was running low on sleep- so I thought maybe that's why she was having a sad time during the dress re-hersal. She didn't want to be up on the stage with the other girls and was crying really hard. I was sad because she loved dancing and really knew the routine and it would be so fun to see her perform her cute dance to Rockin' Robin.
So I did what any other red-blooded American Parent does in a situation like this: I bribed her. I made a deal with Whitney, that if she got up on the stage and did her dance I would buy her a Barbie (any Barbie she wanted!). She agreed. The rest of the evening and all the next day she talked about how she was going to be brave and get up on the stage and dance. She took a long nap before the Recital so I knew she would be a happy girl.
She was happy getting her hair curled and all dolled-up in her cute outfit. Grandma and Aunt Stephanie came down from Bountiful to watch the performance. Even Cousin Sammy was there. We all ate at Wendy's just before the performance.
Whitney kept talking about how she was going to earn her Barbie and stay on the stage and dance for 2 minutes! (I told her the routine was only 2 minutes!)
Her group was the first to go on stage. She was the first child to walk her class up onto the stage.
Then, just before the performance, the MC, who happened to be dressed up like a molester-looking-Elvis Man, announced Whitney's dance group. He stood off to the side of the stage but Whitney could still see him.
It was at this point, Whitney walked up on the stage with the rest of her group. She spotted that nasty-looking Elvis and it was all over. She refused to get in her starting position because, in her words, "That scary Man!"
After I yelled, "She's scared of that man!" Miss Shanda told Elvis to get behind the stage so Whitney couldn't see him. It was too late. Whitney was in tears and after being put into her starting position got up and ran across the stage. She was bawling. Of course, everyone in the audience got a kick out of this and were cracking up.
Bart went and got her while the rest of her class did the routine. Whitney was sad. On the drive home she said, "I want to go to a different place for dance where there's not THAT man!"
Needless to say, I didn't have to buy her a Barbie.
Better luck next year, right? :)
When we got home, Whitney put her costume back on and did the whole routine for us. She knew it so well. I'm a little sad I didn't get to see her perform on stage- mostly because Bart didn't get to see her dancing in class and this was going to be a fun thing for him to watch.
I am proud of her for giving it a good try! Like I used to say when I was her age, "There will be a better day to have fun."
Here are some of the cute pictures that we took:
Our family of four
Mommy & Whitney:
Daddy & Whit:
In the front yard:
Sammy, Stephanie, Whitney & Grandma Paxton
Being SO BRAVE!
Doing make up before the show:
Sammy & Whit:
At home after the recital:
Sammy wanted to try on the outfit:
This is that sad face. Whitney at the dress-rehersal.
Bubba with Annette:
She still loves to dance!